Over the past few weeks I’ve become more and
more concerned about the divide in America. It is no longer a division of
ideologies but of truth itself. Malicious disinformation is creating a separate
culture. We have no agreed upon facts, no agreed upon history, no agreed upon
reality. There is a sizable portion of the country who doesn’t believe in the
result of the election, who think multiple counties and states and voting
machines and poll workers and judges are all coordinated against them. They believe,
after years of packing the courts, that some court decision will sweep in and
save them from the election results (though as of now, 34 cases have dismissed
for lack of evidence). They call themselves patriots, but they want their king
over democracy. How can a democratic republic operate if a sizable group
refuses to acknowledge the will of the people and doesn’t respect such
fundamental values as the Constitution, voting, and the transfer of power? We
can’t even get to arguing about issues if the entire system for peacefully finding
resolutions is broken.
I think one problem lending to this mess is the
lack of ritual in our lives. We have no shared culture, no shared understanding
of sacred ties that bind. We seek out what we please, and bind ourselves to
those identities. We need a shared foundation of what we, as a people, value.
I’m not talking about whitewashed American history
or patriotic propaganda, but I am talking about holding up the values we want
to strive for, even if we have failed to live up to them in the past: freedom,
justice, liberty, democracy.
The peaceful transfer of power is a benchmark
for how stable a democracy is. The first peaceful transfer of power in a new
democracy is hailed as a milestone in democratization and a sign of a
functioning civil society. It is the norm in America, but dozens of countries
have never had a successful peaceful transition of power. Just because it has
been the norm does not mean we can’t lose it. It must be instilled and defended,
as any other value.
Since 1801, presidents have peacefully
transferred power to a new president of a differing party. It was an early test
of the great experiment. A leader of a nation was not a king or a tyrant who
held on to power. It did not take assassination or revolt to overthrow him. The
people spoke, and he willing handed over his role to his rival. Because the
country and democracy was more important than one man or even one party. (And
the 1800 election was incredibly close.) Over time the transition became more bureaucratic
and more ritualized. There are the behind-the-scenes details like security
clearances and Cabinet picks and budgets. But the rituals are for the public,
to reassure them that the government is strong enough to continue through a
peaceful transition, that we can change out our leaders without chaos and
violence.
There is an election. The loser calls the
winner to concede and congratulate. The winner calls for post-election unity.
The outgoing administration helps the incoming administration with resources
and logistics. On the first Monday after the second Wednesday in December, the
electoral college votes, finalizing the election period. Then on January 20, at
noon (so each term is exactly the same length), the new president is sworn in, often
with the former president there to support him. Then the former administration
leaves peacefully for the new administration to take over.
Seeing these rituals are important. They teach
us, as any ritual does. The process is more important than one party. The
people are more powerful than one person. We are a nation capable of peacefully
choosing our leaders. Those fundamentals matter. And the rituals don’t seem
that important under you see the fundamentals start to disappear. Doubt and
discord threaten our peacefulness. We start seeing how easy it all falls apart if
we can’t agree to work together. The tie that binds is untied.
Our hold on any value or tradition is always
less than a generation away of being lost. We must not be complacent and expect
that everything will always remain the same and stable. Times will change, and
we must conscientiously carry our values on through. Rituals remind us of what matters,
teaches us who we are as a people, and instills our values in each repetition.